» On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 » On A Personal Note http://www.thecubiclechick.com Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:00:17 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 My Thoughts on SOPA & Proposed Blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:15 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12553 A few weeks ago, I began seeing a lot of posts on my social networks regarding SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act). To be honest, I paid it no mind, thinking it would just somehow go away. But after some prodding from a few online friends whom I really respect, I looked into SOPA further and realized it was an issue I just couldn't "ignore". As someone who has been on the Internet for 14 plus years, I really value my rights and freedoms. I also make a living utilizing the Internet, so it's important for me to be able to run my businesses without feeling like I am being impeded in any way. While I have never knowingly used someone else's material online without their permission, SOPA's language is vague and threatens the very fiber of the Internet. After reading about SOPA at length, I know it is something that I cannot support. Therefore, TheCubicleChick.com will be "blacked-out" on Tuesday, January 18th. Yes, I will miss the page views, comments, and traffic, but it's a small price to pay to show my support. I am a teeny weeny site in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean that my voice (or site) doesn't matter. I am in solidarity of those who are against SOPA and the freedoms it hinders. I must disclose that when you arrive on my site on 1/18/12, you will receive a message that states that my site is being blacked out due to my support against SOPA. However, you will have an option to click through to the site if you wish. I have a giveaway that is currently in process, and I want to give all of my readers the opportunity to enter and win the item if they choose. I appreciate your patience through tomorrow's strike, and I will be back in full force on 1/19/12. To learn more about SOPA and PIPA, click HERE. Photo credit: Bloggermint]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2012/01/17/my-thoughts-on-sopa-proposed-blackouts/feed/ 0 A Girl’s Best Friend: A New Year’s Eve Memory of My Poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/#comments Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12046 When I was 16, I didn't have much of a New Year's Eve. I was living in Florida at the time and my parents had just separated. I was also new to the area and didn't have many friends, so when the holidays made their way around, I didn't have a lot of people to spend it with. And since I didn't have a license and no car, I couldn't get around much. I remember looking out the window wishing I had somewhere to go or someone to be with to ring in the New Year. It seemed like it was such a lonely time. The only thing I had in my life then was my poodle, Pebbles. She was the ray of sunshine I needed during this lonely and transitional period. Pebbles was given to us by a friend of my dad's. She was an older dog, but very loveable, and as precious as she could be. I didn't grow up with a dog, so having her took some of the pain away of being alone during what should've been a fun time. She took a negative and made it a positive, and I will always remember her for that. She and I watched Dick Clark's New Year's Eve special and she watched me dance to Paula Abdul and a few other of the guests' songs. When the clock struck midnight, it was Pebbles who I hugged and who reciprocated her love, signaling in 1992. She was an amazing friend, and looking back on it now, even though I was at home by myself without a friend in sight, it was her who showed me the most love. The bond that we had at that time surpassed anything I had in a real life friend. It was loving, supportive, kind, and unending. I would be so lucky to have that type of friendship in my life right now. Less than a year later, Pebbles got really ill and was diagnosed with cancer. After a few months of trying to take care of her, my mom decided to have her put down, because at that time, Pebbles was suffering. It was so sad to see her go, but I knew she was going to be in a better place. My family doesn't have a dog now, but we may be getting one in the upcoming year. The memory of Pebbles, and knowing how she was there for us when we needed her, makes me want to give that same gift to my son and daughter. We will see if we get another dog (I am not sure if I want the task of taking care of a pet), but if we do, I am sure that a poodle will be the way we go. Do you have any memories of you and your pet during the holidays? Disclosure: As a part of DogFenceDiy's holiday campaign I am sharing my happiest holiday pet memories. DogFenceDiy, the invisible fence alternative, is dedicated to keeping pets safe for the season.]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/30/a-girls-best-friend-a-new-years-eve-memory-of-my-poodle/feed/ 1 It’s Better to Give Than to Receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=its-better-to-give-than-to-receive http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:00:31 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12024 Christmas is just a few short days away, and it still remains one of the most special days of the year. Whether you are religious, spiritual, or none of the above, Christmastime is all about love and family. No matter your religious affiliation, there are few people that do not value family. Families are the rock and the glue that holds us together. It is easy to get caught up in the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas holiday, as well as the commercialization that goes with it. The presents, the sales, the swarming of malls. It can seem like this is all about money and materialistic items. But for me, Christmas is about two things---the birth of Jesus and spending time with family, giving thanks for everything that we have been blessed with all year. For me, Christmas is not about what I get, but what I give to others. I love to see the look on people's faces when I give them a gift, or I am able to help them out in any way that I can. There are many of my friends that aren't in the best of spirits during this holiday. There are also some close people in my life that continue to go through trials and tribulations personally. Whatever I can do to help them is what I look forward to most. Lending a hand is what we were put on this earth to do. I simply love giving to those who I love. I hope that you and your family have the best Christmas ever. And that you remember, beyond the gifts and money spent, the real reason for the season. Merry Christmas to you all!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/23/its-better-to-give-than-to-receive/feed/ 0 Oprah’s Lifeclass Journal: It’s Finally Here! http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/#comments Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:18 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=12003 I wrote a blog post about Oprah's upcoming Lifeclass which was due to debut in October on her OWN cable channel. I was so excited about being apart of the class, which served to be an introspection of Oprah's past shows and guests, as she schooled us on the lessons behind the shows, and how they have shaped her life. When you signed up for the class online, you were also given the opportunity to enter your address for a free Oprah's Lifeclass journal that you could use while you watched the shows. I loved watching the programs when they started, but kept wondering when my journal would make an appearance so I could begin writing in it. It finally came! Yesterday when I went to my mailbox, the Lifeclass journal I awaited finally arrived. Ya'll ain't ready. This journal is about to transform my life!

Have you gotten yours, yet?

]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/12/22/oprahs-lifeclass-journal-its-finally-here/feed/ 5 Drumroll Please….My 1000th Blog Post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 15:00:43 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11562 This is my 1,000th blog post on TheCubicleChick.com. Who would've thought that I would make it to 1,000 posts? That is like a major feat in the world of blogging---to reach this milestone for me is incredible. I am the type of person who struggled to stick to one thing. I usually would give up after a few months and go onto something else. It's amazing what a therapeutic experience this has been, blogging on this site. It has become a major part of my life, and I couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point. Now there is work for me to do. I want to make it to 2,000 posts. Then 3,000. And so on and so forth. I want this blog not only to be a place where people can come and read, but a community of Cubes and Dudes, people who enjoy pop culture, fashion, fabulosity, and fun. I want it to be my legacy, something I can look back on and say "yes. I DID THAT!" So let me leave this post with this: Find your creative center, your space, your vision, and grow it. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't do it. And if they do tell you that you can't, use that to fuel and motivate you. Now onto writing post 1,001. :)]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/11/12/drumroll-please-my-1000th-blog-post/feed/ 14 Sometimes You Need to Unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sometimes-you-need-to-unplug http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/#comments Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:00:20 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11267 I haven't went on a full sabbatical from the net the last five days, but I have greatly decreased my use of the Internet and social networks from my usual tweets and updates. I haven't updated my blog in almost four days, which is unheard of in these parts. Simply put, I am up to my ears in Show Me the Blog preparation and working on several projects for clients while trying to maintain my freelancing duties. Add to that my need to connect with my family (boy do I need that balance in my life) and spiritual growth, and I just haven't had the time I usually have to spend online. Sometimes, you need to unplug. There are only so many hours in the day, and lately, I have been burning the candle at both ends. Sometimes I wonder why I always set myself up for momentous tasks that always end up running me ragged. I guess it's the thrill, and the thought of pulling out of me everything it takes to make something happen. I continue to rise to every occasion stronger and better than before. All of the work is usually worth it in the end. But with the new week comes new goals and new challenges. When I do unplug, it's never for long. Do you ever take time away from the Internet to reevaluate and regroup? What has been your experiences?]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/16/sometimes-you-need-to-unplug/feed/ 9 Special Dedication: Adele, Someone Like You http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:26 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11207 Never mind, I'll find someone like you I wish nothing but the best for you too Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead," Yeah. ---Adele, Someone Like You Can I say that this song brings so many emotions to mind. As a fan of Adele's triumphant vocals, I swear I cry every time I hear this song. It's like there's a permanent tear tattooed on the track, trickling with her emotion. It's when I hear the song that I want to melt away---somewhere, be someplace else than where I am. If this song isn't the truth, I don't know what is. SMH. No more drama. Does anyone feel where I am coming from? Does anyone drink from the Kool-Aid that is Adele? Isn't she one of the most brilliant vocalista of our time, of this generation? Each note she sings identifies with my soul. Unkempt.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/10/06/special-dedication-adele-someone-like-you/feed/ 8 YouTube Uploading Blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=you-tube-uploading-blues http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2011 14:20:57 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11133 I wonder what the World Record is for the most attempts to upload the same video on YouTube is (questionmark). I have been trying to upload a video of my interview with Style Expert Lloyd Boston since around 8pm yesterday. And as of 9am this morning, I have been unsuccessful. :( The video (which is really an audio file and picture of Lloyd Boston since we did the interview over the phone last Thursday), is only about 8 minutes in length and was created and edited in iMovie. It's an m4v file which is a common file used on YouTube. I am not sure why I am having the issue---it uploads but fails to process each time. And the one time it did finally process and was completed, I deleted it, thinking it was another video that failed to upload (insert profanity HERE). My plan was to bring you guys the interview this morning, but at this rate, it's looking the video won't be uploaded until like Christmas or New Year's. I am so frustrated right now. As you were.... (sidenote: I even tried to upload it to Vimeo and it's been FAILing there too. Got me wondering if it's my Internet connection or what have you) Console me please!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/26/you-tube-uploading-blues/feed/ 2 The Tale of My First Gray Hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/#comments Sun, 25 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11110 For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I've decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand. Oy vey! Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I've gotten my first real strand of gray hair. Damn, damn, damn, James! I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn't good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray---it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever. I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30's and early 40's respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. I don't color my hair currently and I don't plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing.... Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your "elderly" hairs? Speak on it!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/25/the-tale-of-my-first-gray-hair/feed/ 11 The Cubicle Chick.com’s Upcoming 2nd Blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/20/the-cubicle-chick-coms-upcoming-2-year-blogaversary/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-cubicle-chick-coms-upcoming-2-year-blogaversary http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/20/the-cubicle-chick-coms-upcoming-2-year-blogaversary/#comments Tue, 20 Sep 2011 14:00:04 +0000 The Cubicle Chick http://www.thecubiclechick.com/?p=11046 Funny how time flies when you're blogging! I cannot believe it has almost been 2 years since I began blogging on TheCubicleChick.com. What started off as a hobby and a way for me to channel my creativity has become my 9 to 5, my hustle, my corporation, my everything. It just seemed like yesterday that I purchased my domain and remixed my first WordPress template---now I am in design 3.0 of my site. But enough of me! My 2nd Blogaversary is all about you, my readers who have really helped me not only develop my site, but helped me learn how to use my voice to talk about the things that are important in terms of work life, family life, pop culture, and fashion. During my Blogaversary week, I will be holding one giveaway a day to celebrate this important milestone. This is an opportunity to give back to the readers who have stuck by me for two years. One of my first giveaways on my site was from LUSH, so I am going to be taking it back by offering 5 giveaways a day, each with a Lush gift, product, or perk. I love LUSH's products for the body, and cannot wait to share with you guys what I have up my sleeve. For now, this teaser will have to do. Who would've thought that after starting seven-eleven blogs before and abandoning them after a few posts that I would be here, almost 2 years later with over 5,000 approved comments and close to 1,000 blog posts? Certainly NOT ME! :) Mark your calendars for October 9th and be sure to have your confetti, glitter, and air kisses ready. Mama is gonna party and I hope you will be joining me!]]> http://www.thecubiclechick.com/index.php/2011/09/20/the-cubicle-chick-coms-upcoming-2-year-blogaversary/feed/ 8