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Family Ties, Parent's Just Don't Understand, The 17 year old · April 11, 2011

It’s official! My son is 17!


Seventeen years ago yesterday, I became a mother for the first time. I’ve been a mother longer than I have been anything else. When I first got pregnant at the age of 17 (I gave birth when I was 18), my family was none too pleased. I was supposed to be the one that would do great things—-the one who would become famous on television as a talk show host and therefore catapult my family to fortune and fame. All of this seemed within my reach when I graduated in 1993, but once I got pregnant a few months later, it didn’t go over too well.

I knew I wanted to have my son—I didn’t want to give him up for adoption or have an abortion. And I knew it was going to be hard being a single teen mom on my own but I had to try. I had to do whatever I needed to do for me and my baby.

So on Sunday, April 10, 1994 at 8:24pm, my son was brought into the world by Cesarean section. I hadn’t held a newborn baby before. I had never changed a diaper or made a bottle. I was the only child so we didn’t have a lot of babies around in our home. All of it was so new. But as soon as I saw his face, I fell in love with this little boy. And it’s been so much love ever since.

Now he is 17 and almost a man. We went through a few rough years in the beginning. We struggled, ate spaghetti everyday, and lived in a one bedroom apartment for a few years. We didn’t have a Christmas tree the first few years when he was a baby. But I did everything for him and he never wanted for anything.

It’s so awesome to see him now. He’s a handsome fella that really doesn’t like the fact that his mom is young and sometimes passes for his sister. We don’t always get along, but there is never any love lost. I want for him to be the best he can be. And in just one year, he will be embarking out on his own journey on his own.

He is my joy. Son, I love you.

My son when he was 2 months

My son’s junior HS photo


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  1. Robin Witherspoon says

    April 12, 2011 at 10:33 am

    Sending Happy Birthday wishes to your pride and joy! I’m sure you’re a great Mom! God Bless you both!
    ~Robin
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    • The Cubicle Chick says

      April 12, 2011 at 11:31 pm

      Robin, thank you so much. I’ve done the best that I can. Now, it’s up to him to change the world. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Samantha Bangayan says

    April 12, 2011 at 11:13 pm

    Your story is amazing, Danyelle! Look at how you’ve proved them all wrong! You’ve accomplished so much despite all who said you wouldn’t be able to. You inspire me. =)

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      April 12, 2011 at 11:29 pm

      Samantha, thank you for your kind words. I am very proud of my son and I know that he has a bright future ahead 🙂

      Reply
  3. Kim says

    April 13, 2011 at 8:16 am

    Awww this was such a sweet post! Hope your son had an awesome birthday.

    Reply
  4. VivaLaBrandi says

    April 13, 2011 at 1:27 pm

    aawwww, I got all teary eyed & look at you know a woman with a brand with 2 beautiful children. Go Girl!!!!!!

    Reply
  5. April Morrow says

    April 16, 2011 at 10:07 am

    Thanks for sharing this awesome tribute to your son with us!

    Reply
  6. Kerissa says

    April 17, 2011 at 12:07 pm

    He’s so handsome. I can certainly relate. My son will be 12 in a few months and I’m getting mushy again. I don’t want him to grow up..NO!! wait just kidding. I’ve discovered in these 11 years that KT doesn’t care about not having the “it” family. He wants and needs me; his mother, my advice, prayers, hugs and cheers. With that he and Codi as he appears will grow up to be fine young men. P.S. You can still be a talk show host. I’m still pursuing dreams 🙂

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Every cow needs a cowboy. 🐮 🤠 Every cow needs a cowboy. 🐮 🤠
Out here living my best plaid and pumpkin life. 🍁
It’s always going to be the joy, peace, and grat It’s always going to be the joy, peace, and gratitude for me. ❤️
I'm too classy for this world, forever, I'm that g I'm too classy for this world, forever, I'm that girl. ♍️

This is 48! #happybirthday #hbd #hbdtome
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