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Cubicle Life, On A Personal Note · July 26, 2011

Is Your Ego Getting in the Way of Your Success?


We ‘d all like to think that we are great at what we do and that others notice. We hustle and grind on our business endeavors to make sure that at the end of the day, they are profitable and enduring. When someone comes along and says, “great job” or “I like what you do”, it can do wonders for morale and for business. But do all of those pats on the back and wonderful accolades go to your head and get in the way of your success?

I, for one, can testify to this. There have been times where I’ve found myself basking in the light of compliments, only to realize that doing so does nothing for me or for my business. The euphoria is temporary, and the work can’t complete itself. I am only as good as my last blog post, project, or personal appearance, so getting too full of myself does no one but me a disservice.

In order to check myself (before I wreck myself), I have an actual checklist that I maintain so that I stay true to me, my blog, and my business, without getting too caught up in the clouds. Not letting your success, however big or small that may be, rule your life is a pretty good strategy. And it just may help you continue to rise to the top, without plummeting in your own cloud of ego:

Don’t be too good to ask for help:

No matter how big you are in whatever it is you are doing, continue to ask for help. Don’t think you are too good to ask someone for their opinion, or if you have a question, seek out an answer from a trusted source.

Never stop learning:

Know it all’s really kill my mood. There is always something to learn, so remain open to learning and growing.

Modesty goes a long way:

Did you receive a compliment today or a wonderful comment on your blog? Say thank you (and mean it), or comment back to the person on your blog and let them know you appreciate them leaving a comment.

It’s not all about you:

As an only child, sometimes I am guilty of this. I have to realize that it’s not all about me or what I want, but let others have their shine and congratulate them when they are doing well.

Tribe or Think Tank:

Having a tribe or think tank who you consult with about business matters (and help check you when your head gets too big) is a really good look. They have your best interests at heart, and because you trust them, they can tell you about yourself without you becoming overly emotional about their feedback. My tribe has done wonders for my business and I wouldn’t trade them for the world. Plus, they keep me focused on the real matters at hand—business.

Letting your ego get in the way of your success can ruin a really good thing. Hopefully the tips above can help you. Here’s to success, without the big head! 🙂


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Comments

  1. glamazini says

    July 26, 2011 at 12:07 pm

    This post is why I think you are awesome sauce with fat free chips on the side; humble and incredibly talented all in 1 fell swoop (don’t let those compliments get in the way of your success *heh*). I totally agree with what you’re saying. Bible says “pride comes before a fall” and I have to always tell myself “Self, don’t get to happy with the shine” (’cause it’s not mine anyway).

    Anyhoo … great post. In closing .. before I wreck myself … ’cause getting a big head is bad for your health! 😛

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      July 26, 2011 at 10:26 pm

      Aww, thanks Glammy! Now will YOU remember me when you make it to the top, OKAY?! Love ya!

      Reply
  2. Kim says

    July 28, 2011 at 9:51 am

    Great post! I don’t think I have enough ego. I’m uncomfortable talking about myself, what I know, what I can do, and what I’ve accomplished. I never want to be that person yammering on & on about herself.

    Reply
  3. The Nerdy Nurse says

    July 30, 2011 at 5:46 pm

    I totally agree. But… I do think that we need to take a moment every now and then and sit back and enjoy our accomplishments and hard work. A lifelong learner I know that I will constantly be striving to better myself and gain more knowledge, but every now and then I think its important that we sit back, prop our feet up and think “Yep, I’ve done well”.
    We know we’re just going to pick up and get the grind tomorrow, so enjoy an evening or two just basking in your accomplishments. Think about all those who are entitled and basking in themselves, with no accomplishments… Why should they get all the fun?
    You likely don’t do it nearly as often as you should!

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This #essencefest was one for the record books, in This #essencefest was one for the record books, in more ways than one.  Nola will always be one of my favorite places to visit, and I’m looking forward to being in the place again next year. Until then…
My first full day at #essencefest is in the books. My first full day at #essencefest is in the books. It’s very—different from years past, but I’m proud to be covering it this year. 🙌🏾
Awesome human. Magna Cum Laude. Editor-in-Chief. Awesome human. 
Magna Cum Laude.
Editor-in-Chief.
School podcaster.
Quill and Scroll recipient.
Citizenship award winner.
Spirit of Excellence  Award 8 yrs. running. 
Class of 2022. 
Job well done, daughter!
P R O M. That’s the caption. P R O M. That’s the caption.
You done good, young lady. Now it’s time to soar You done good, young lady. Now it’s time to soar. 🎓#classof2022
Happy #NationalCollegeDecisionDay! Laylah is off Happy #NationalCollegeDecisionDay! 

Laylah is officially registered at St. John’s University and will begin her freshman year in August as a Public Relations Major. I’m so proud of her hard work and dedication—proud of the young woman that she has become.
Allow me to reintroduce myself. My name is.. Dan Allow me to reintroduce myself. My name is.. 

Danyelle Little, the NEW Director of Marketing and Communications at @rungforwomen . Been sitting on this for a while—now it’s officially official. 🙌🏾
Happy 28th birthday to the best son a mom could ev Happy 28th birthday to the best son a mom could ever have. Kind. Supportive. Talented. Creative. Caring. Smart. Courageous. The list goes on and on. You’ve overcome so much in the past year, and I know that God’s plan for you is working. I love you more than words can say. ❤️❤️❤️
And it’s official. Signed, sealed, delivered. Cl And it’s official. Signed, sealed, delivered. Class of 2026! 🙌🏾@stjohnsu #acceptedstudentday
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