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I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
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Kids & Parenting, Parenting, School Stuff · September 18, 2012

What To Do When The Teacher Calls About Disciplinary Problems


We’d all like to think that our children are angels. But in reality, no matter how perfect we think our kids are (or want them to be), they aren’t perfect—they are human. And as kids, they may get into trouble, especially at school when rules may not always be followed. As a parent, you can’t freak out if the school calls you.

Here is what to do if or when the teacher calls you about disciplinary problems:

1. Stay Calm:

Getting irate and freaking out when a teacher calls is out of order. Instead, breathe, relax, and focus on the matter at hand. Do not assign blame before listening to what the teacher has to say. And the operative word is LISTEN. Do not interrupt the teacher and stay composed. That’s the best way to handle the situation.

2. Take It In, Then Repeat:

Before you begin to assess what you are going to do, take it in. Take a moment to decipher the information given. Then, to make sure that you understand the information given, repeat it so that you know you have received the information correctly. Process it before talking to your child.

3. Put It Into Perspective:

All kids get into some kind of trouble at some point. Don’t be too hard on your child. Put it into perspective and move forward. Is your child acting out because of changes at home? Are they in with the wrong crowd? There are usually reasons why a child gets  in trouble at school so try to understand that first before disciplining your child.

4. Ask the Tough Questions:

This part can be hard but it’s very important. Were there any other kids involved? Has the school taken steps to assess punishment or discipline? Does the disciplinary action fit the “crime”? Don’t be afraid to speak out and ask questions.

5. Get Involved:

Get involved with the disciplinary action with the school. I know at my daughter’s school, if she is ever to be disciplined, I would be invited to the school to sign-off on the action. Meet with the teacher if need be or the assistant principal (or even the principal if need be).

6. Be Proactive, Not Reactive:

Despite your child getting in trouble, they deserve forgiveness. Don’t be too hard on them. And to prevent additional incidents, be proactive, not reactive. Discuss with them the type of behavior that they need to have each day and promote positivity. Try to stop additional disciplinary issues before they happen.

No one likes it when the school calls because of a disciplinary issue. But it’s not the end of the world. Put these tips to use and encourage positive behavior in your child.


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  1. Credit Donkey says

    September 22, 2012 at 9:34 pm

    We also have to keep in mind not to be too harsh on our kids. It could have just been an accident. I remember when I was five, I was reprimanded because I hit another girl in the eye with a doll’s head. I didn’t mean to hit her, we were playing and I just threw it hard thinking she’ll catch it, not thinking it may harm her instead.

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Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally be Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally been able to get a staycation on the calendar. Having fun with these ladies!
Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school i Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school in Jacksonville, and I had 3 different hairstyles going on at the same time.  #FBF #backintheday
So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of thi So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of this year’s @shesaidstlouis  on Friday, March 10th at The Sheldon. We’ll be sharing our stories monologue style, and it’s going to be a good time. If you’d like to get tickets, hit me up! A portion of the proceeds will go to @rungforwomen. 👍🏾
February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partn February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partnered with @MedIQCME and Duke Health to raise awareness about atrial fibrillation (AFib), also known as irregular heartbeat which affects 12 million people.My father was diagnosed with AFib and my family has a history of this condition, so I do my best to learn as much as I can about it.

I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
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