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I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

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Cubicle Life, The Cubicle Chick Do, The Cubicle Chick Don't · October 14, 2009

I Was Written Up


black_woman_office2Almost everyone that has been employed in some fashion has been written up. Be it for using the Internet when company policy forbids it, arriving late to the office continuously, or maybe not performing to your company’s standards, we have all had some sort of “talk or action plan” when it comes to our prospective employment positions.

There are two things you could do when something like this occurs. If it’s not warranted or you feel that the write up is not correct, you could fight it through the policies that are in place at your company or you could sit back, accept the write up for what it is and move forward and work on improving the matter addressed. As a former Human Resources Manager,  the best thing to do is to act professionally and responsibly. Depending on the severity of the write up or the reason, acting negatively to the decision to discipline you, or your poor reaction to the news could be the final nail in your coffin.

Here are a few methods or tools that you could use in your workplace after being written up to ensure it does not happen again (and to ensure you keep your job):

  • Make sure that you understand the reason(s) for your write-up so there isn’t any misunderstandings. During the meeting to discuss the disciplinary action against you, use words like, “so that I understand, I am being written up because of X,Y, and Z”, or something to that effect. Make sure you are aware of the offense clearly and there are no gray areas.
  • Use eye contact and do not interrupt your manager or boss. Looking away or downward may signal that you have something to hide or you are being dishonest. While your manager is talking, do not interrupt. Let him or her get their thoughts out before you chime in and do not raise your voice or show irritability. (do that with a friend or colleague afterwards)
  • Understand the terms of the disciplinary action against you. If you are being placed on a probationary period, know what that period is and what they are expecting of you.
  • Move forward positively. No one likes to be written up and have it placed in their permanent file, but you won’t win the war theoretically so if you plan on keeping your job, let any negative feelings go as long as you are in the office. Your manager will notice that you are still pleasant to work with and will be more likely to be on your side.
  • Do not get other co-workers involved in your situation. Involving others in your write-up (unless they are actually involved and placed in the write-up) is a sure fire way to bring even more drama into a not so pleasant situation. If your friends/co-workers want to go to bat for you, it may do more damage than good.
  • Last but not least, if you cannot get past the write up or you simply do not like the predicament you have been placed in, it is time for you to look for another job. You can’t change a bad situation overnight and if this is too much for you, my advice is to give a two weeks notice, granted you can afford to. If not, stick it out until you can. We all have bills to pay.

What are some of your write up stories? Did it end pleasantly or negatively. Let’s converse!


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  1. Dannigyrl says

    October 17, 2009 at 1:56 am

    I actually have been written up before when I was in sales several years back and I didn't meet my quota. But as someone who as worked as a Human Resources Manager, I've also experienced those not-so-nice moments when the person in question acts a fool. It's not a good thing when people cannot act as human beings and discuss things in a rational manner.

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  2. Tani Joy says

    October 20, 2009 at 9:19 pm

    I was written up when I worked a restaurant. I left a table dirty and left the restaurant to go to Target. I was under the impression that my co worker was going to clean it. That’s been the only time. I’m a damn good employee!!!! No need to write the kid up. : )

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  3. Dannigyrl says

    October 21, 2009 at 3:04 am

    Tani-once is enough, right mama? Unfortunately, when I was in HR, there were employees who were written up several times for several different offenses. It seemed that they never learned their lesson. SMH.

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So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of thi So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of this year’s @shesaidstlouis  on Friday, March 10th at The Sheldon. We’ll be sharing our stories monologue style, and it’s going to be a good time. If you’d like to get tickets, hit me up! A portion of the proceeds will go to @rungforwomen. 👍🏾
February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partn February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partnered with @MedIQCME and Duke Health to raise awareness about atrial fibrillation (AFib), also known as irregular heartbeat which affects 12 million people.My father was diagnosed with AFib and my family has a history of this condition, so I do my best to learn as much as I can about it.

I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
Another flower arranging therapy Reel, this time w Another flower arranging therapy Reel, this time with roses and a little Stevie Wonder. I could do this all day! 🌹 #traderjoes #flowers #roses #therapy #selfcare
Mimosas, beignets, and Benedicts, oh my! Brunch is Mimosas, beignets, and Benedicts, oh my! Brunch is my absolute favorite meal and @louieswinedive in Clayton treated us so well! I will definitely be back. 

#brunch #stl #stlouis #food #stlfoodie #hosted
Brunch vibes. #latergram #brunch #stl #stlouis Brunch vibes. #latergram #brunch #stl #stlouis
A generous heart is always open, always ready to r A generous heart is always open, always ready to receive our going and coming. In the midst of such love, we need never fear abandonment. This is the most precious gift true love offers – the experience of knowing we always belong.” — bell hooks
One more week before she goes back to school for h One more week before she goes back to school for her second semester. Reppin #stl and @seriessixcompany. 

#stlouis #collegekid #stlmade #mykid
Flower arranging has become the self-care I didn’t know I needed. It’s a tranquil and relaxing experience for me. Get into it. 💐 #traderjoes #flowers #therapy #selfcare
It was about a mellow mood & self-care for me toda It was about a mellow mood & self-care for me today as I spent the first day of the year taking care of my mind, body, and soul. It went something like this…. #newyear #selfcare #overforty #fortyish
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