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Career, Cubicle Life, The Water Cooler · November 5, 2014

Cubicle Confessions: My Coworker Stinks


Cubicle-Confessions

When working in an office environment full of people, it is a certainty that there will be issues. The following email came from Trish* who wrote to me last month wanting some advice. According to Trish, this has been a problem that has persisted in her office for months, and she is at wits end.

Here’s a portion of her letter:

I am writing you because I look forward to reading your blog posts and Facebook updates about work and professionalism. I have had an issue with a coworker of mine for almost a year now. I have been as tactful as I can be regarding this issue, but it is getting worse. I am not the only person who has brought this up, but we don’t know how to tackle it in a respectful manner without hurting her feelings.

This woman is pretty new to our department. We’ve all worked there for three plus years. She is a good coworker, does a good job, and knows her stuff but she has an odor problem. My coworker stinks and she smells like fish three out of the five days of the week. It’s a smell that makes me ill and you can’t get away from it when she’s around. You would think that someone well put together would have her personal hygiene in check, but in her case, she doesn’t. I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to hurt her feelings. But something has to give. Can you help me? What should I do?

Wow! There are few things worse in the office than a funky coworker. Add to that its your boss and the level of OMG-ness is at an all-time high. You would think that grown people know how to keep themselves clean and odor free, but in this case, hygiene is an issue. So let’s cut to the chase.

You need to have a conversation woman to woman with this woman. Yes, it will be uncomfortable. Yes, she is going to be embarrassed. But everyone is going to have to woman up and show some honesty. This woman mustn’t have any friends, or they would’ve let her know that she is smelling tangy. That is not cool. So be the better person and clue her in on her issue.

She is probably aware of it already. People with noticeable odor usually are. It could be hormonal changes in her body or simply not keeping herself clean down there. Whatever the case, in a work environment, there is no time for smelly folk. So she’s got to step her game up. And you have to tell her about herself.

Don’t do this in a mean way. be compassionate. Be understanding. Approach her like someone who is concerned. She may feel awkward and embarrassed, but in the end, she will be better for it.

If you don’t feel that you are up to this challenge, speak with a boss or manager who can bring it up to her privately. I don’t advise this to be the first tactic since it is like you are “telling” on her, but if you don’t feel up to it, then getting a manager involved is the next best thing to do.

Good luck with this. And I hope this matter gets cleared up soon. For everyone involved.

What advice would you give to Trish? Share in the comment section below.

*The name has been changed to protect identity. Email has been edited for clarity and length. If you would like to submit a question for Cubicle Confessions, please send an email to info@thecubiclechick.com. You can be anonymous and none of your personal information will be shared.

 


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Comments

  1. Zena Thomas says

    November 5, 2014 at 12:56 pm

    Ekkkk. Its an unfortunate and uncomfortable situation to be in but your advice is right on point. It will be awkward but in the long run you are trying to help her out and give her a heads up. Its better to confront then people talk about her around the office forever bc they are afraid of the awkward situation. The key words are compassion and understanding. Great advice as usual.

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    • The Cubicle Chick says

      November 5, 2014 at 9:40 pm

      I guess it’s a rite of passage for any office. I think we’ve all had these issues— unfortunately. LOL. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Miss Sara says

    November 15, 2014 at 2:11 pm

    I used to have a co-worker (in an office) with an odor problem. She always had the issue when she wasn’t taking care of herself. She is diabetic and I talked to her about it. Every time I noticed the odor I said something to her. We have remained great friends since then.

    I now am an officer in a maximum security women’s prison. I deal with 600+ offenders who are not always great about taking care of themselves. They are depressed, they haven’t had anyone teach them how to clean themselves, they have medical issues that they’ve never faced, and the list goes on. I tell each one of them, in a tactful manner as to what I notice. I go as far as when I’m doing strip searches and notice NASTY discharge that they need to put in a healthcare slip to see the doc. If I’m pat searching staff that comes into the facility and an officer has an odor I tell them, too. It’s more respectful to talk to someone than to talk about them. If someone noticed something about me I’d hope they’d tell me. Out of compassion.

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  3. Notorious Spinks says

    November 15, 2014 at 10:28 pm

    If it was my friend then I’d say something.. but I’ d hate for her to get offended and go to management… This is a crazy situation and I’d just chat with my manager about it and let them deal with it.

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You know I like to keep it F-R-E-S-H.🌽 🍅 🥒

I can do that as well as support local Missouri and Illinois family farms with @Dierbergs Homegrown.

Think of Dierbergs Homegrown as a Farmer’s Market inside of a grocery store. It has the freshest produce available locally. In order for the item to be considered Dierbergs Homegrown, it has to be picked, packed and delivered to their stores in less than 24 hours.

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Dierbergs Rewards app is super easy to use and makes for worry-free shopping. I’m a fan! 

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