The perfect little black dress with some fabulous designer high heeled pumps with a fragranced scent of perfection could do it? Or a warm bath in the jacuzzi tub with the jets at full blast bubbling as candles glow lightly in the bathroom? Or how about a wink from a cute guy across the room that is saying so much without uttering a word?
What is it that makes you feel sexy?
We do so much with our days. Between work and home and family and trying to have some type of life recreationally, we can forget about the little things in life that are oh so important. Keeping and maintaing that groove of being fabulous and sexy could get lost in the shuffle. But just as you schedule appointments for meetings and work and activities for the kids, you must schedule some time for yourself to keep it sexy.
I love being pampered. Getting things like manicures and pedicures make me feel beautiful and special and oh so sexy. Or a deep tissue massage. Or going out to my favorite club or nightspot and dancing the night away to the deejay playing my favorite jams is another way that I keep that groove. You don’t want to ever lose the groove. Do you remember Stella from Terry McMillan’s ‘How Stella Got Her Groove Back?” She was one of the first “cougars” on record who went to Jamaica on a fabulous vacation only to fall in love with a younger man. Why? Because he believed in her, loved her for being her, and made her feel sexy.
You don’t have to go all the way to Jamaica to get your groove back if you lost it. Do things that make you feel sexy—salsa dance or do something exotic and fun like signing up for pole dancing fitness classes. Whatever it is that makes you feel that special kind of way, make sure you take time to luxuriate in it whenever you can. Doing so can help you stay young, active, healthy, and of course, sexy.
So ladies, do not let the stress of your life interrupt your flow. Keep it sexy and do the things YOU like to do. When you take time out for yourselves, you can better take care of the ones you love.
What are some things that you do to feel sexy? Use the comment below to sound off. I want to hear from you!
nanna J says
My man makes me feel sexy. Holding his hand, him smiling at me, when he tells me how beautiful I am, even when I feel I am at my worse.
my whore length hair makes me feel sexy..those amazing heels…
when my boyfriend tells me how lucky he is to have someone as beautiful as me..
S A V V Y Fatty! says
Getting a fresh cut makes me feel sexy. I've been Baldilocks for almost a year now and there's no feeling greater than coming out of my barber's chair with the FRESHEST 'do. Not only do I feel like a million bucks, but my smile is automatically illuminated. I feel like my teeth whiten and my lips broaden. In short, I just get FLY!
Painting my nails also does the trick. I have the shortest, stubbiest little fingers, but they light UP once I apply just a hint of color. Right now they're a creamy yellow; looking oh so fun and flirty. It's just a small thing, but it makes me feel just as fun and ready to flirt. 🙂
I love your hair BTW. Not everyone can pull if off but you most certainly do!
When I take a bath or shower with my special bodywash and put on something cute.
Cute clothes, eye makeup, painting my nails, my babe, my locs…Great topic : )