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I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
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Beauty, On A Personal Note · September 25, 2011

The Tale of My First Gray Hair


For the majority of the summer, I have been wearing my hair cut short with a few layers in the front and sides. I really like this look on me and it has allowed me to look a little funky and glam without much effort. Since the Fall season is finally here, I’ve decided to go long (pictures of that coming soon) but I wanted a nice haircut before I got a new sew in weave. This brought me to cut a very thorough trimming and we discovered my first gray hair strand.

Oy vey!

Last year, I found a small gray hair strand on my right sideburn, but after months and months of growing and cutting, it never resurfaced again. Now, there is a definitive gray hair strand on my left that has been cut and re-cut twice and it has grown back. So at the age of 36, I’ve gotten my first real strand of gray hair.

Damn, damn, damn, James!

I thought I was going to freak out more than I did. Embracing my age has become a work in progress for me, so having the gray hair start to grow in wasn’t good news. After seeing it, cutting it, and seeing it again, I have come to terms with my latest strand of gray—it was inevitable. It was unrealistic to think I was going to escape having a dash of gray forever.

I have friends who began getting gray hair in their late teens and early twenties, so me going this long without gray hair is pretty interesting. Both of my parents began to gray in their late 30’s and early 40’s respectively, so it was only a matter of time before it happened to me.

I don’t color my hair currently and I don’t plan on doing so unless the gray begins to take over. My stylist has counted one strand so far, so we will keep an eye on it. Story developing….

Have you gotten your first strand of gray yet? Do you currently color to hide your “elderly” hairs? Speak on it!


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Comments

  1. Roxanne says

    September 25, 2011 at 9:22 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. Alas, this is a topic — well, I find it too painful to speak freely about. Be strong.

    Reply
  2. Rhonda says

    September 25, 2011 at 9:35 am

    I found my first gray hair about two years ago at 33. It’s on my right side. I haven’t seen anymore, though. I don’t color it or try to pull it out. I feel like I’ve earned it. Four teenagers in my house and only one gray hair? Yeah,I’m good! LOL!

    Reply
  3. Dietta says

    September 25, 2011 at 9:37 am

    I am 41 so yes, I have gotten my first gray hair…and a few extra! I remember flipping out a little when I started noticing them but I don’t remember how old I was. I do color them when I wear my hair out–I’m a sew in sista too, okay :-)–because mine are mainly right in the front and add years on me if I don’t cover them up. The issue with coloring them however, is they are very stubborn. Gray hairs are so course they do not color well with just a rinse–it works but can fade quickly.

    The only consolation I can offer is what I’ve told myself and heard from others…we earn each gray hair we get. And they eventually will be a symbol of honor and wisdom…but for now, I’m okay with not seeming as wise! So I will cover them up.

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      September 25, 2011 at 3:58 pm

      Dietta, thank you for making me feel a little better about my gray hair. Not sure how I will react to the other ones that are sure to follow; LOL.

      Reply
  4. By Word of Mouth Musings says

    September 25, 2011 at 2:00 pm

    Would love to commiserate but since you, girlfriend are only finding them on your head … I am not feeling so sorry for you.
    When they travel a little more South … then come talk too me 😉

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      September 25, 2011 at 3:59 pm

      OMG, Nicole. So you mean it gets gray down there too? LOL. iCant! 🙁

      Reply
  5. Aisha G of Hartlyn Kids says

    September 25, 2011 at 7:08 pm

    I am in Nicole’s court! My first gray hair was actually where the sun doesn’t shine. I have several there. But I was ok with that because the one person who saw that new “she” wasn’t old. This summer I got my first gray hair up top and I squealed. I knew it would be coming soon but it was just a culmination of a summer when I started to feel old. So far – it is just one but I know cousins are a coming!

    Reply
  6. LegalGrindWifey says

    September 25, 2011 at 9:19 pm

    Hehe yes I got my first grey hair and dry to hide it all my kinks, curls, and waves…

    Reply
  7. simplyme says

    September 26, 2011 at 12:37 pm

    Lucky you. I got my first strand at 13…well more like 4. I have a nice patch now that you can see up close. It can be hidden when in a ponytail or wet. I was dating this guy earlier this year and we were cuddled up on the couch. He smell my hair and said wow your hair smells so good. The guy then paused and asked me if I was sure I was 28 because of the gray. I couldn’t help but LMAO.

    Reply
  8. KristiLove77 says

    September 26, 2011 at 1:49 pm

    I got my first gray hair in my 20’s. I am now 34. At first it bothered me but now I dont care since I color my hair regularly.

    Reply
  9. Elane says

    November 26, 2011 at 9:25 am

    It is part of aging. It is a sign that you have now come of age. 🙂
    You can color your hair though.

    Reply

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When I was Sweet 16. #tbt #throwbackthursday When I was Sweet 16. #tbt #throwbackthursday
To all the lovers. A little flower arrangement fro To all the lovers. A little flower arrangement from me to you for Love Day. ❤️❤️❤️ #valentines #valentinesday #love
Circa 1981. My snaggletooth era. 😂#TBT Circa 1981. My snaggletooth era. 😂#TBT
We did our best to recreate our onesie moment from We did our best to recreate our onesie moment from 2013. Strike a pose, the remix.
Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally be Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally been able to get a staycation on the calendar. Having fun with these ladies!
Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school i Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school in Jacksonville, and I had 3 different hairstyles going on at the same time.  #FBF #backintheday
So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of thi So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of this year’s @shesaidstlouis  on Friday, March 10th at The Sheldon. We’ll be sharing our stories monologue style, and it’s going to be a good time. If you’d like to get tickets, hit me up! A portion of the proceeds will go to @rungforwomen. 👍🏾
February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partn February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partnered with @MedIQCME and Duke Health to raise awareness about atrial fibrillation (AFib), also known as irregular heartbeat which affects 12 million people.My father was diagnosed with AFib and my family has a history of this condition, so I do my best to learn as much as I can about it.

I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
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