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February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partn February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partnered with @MedIQCME and Duke Health to raise awareness about atrial fibrillation (AFib), also known as irregular heartbeat which affects 12 million people.My father was diagnosed with AFib and my family has a history of this condition, so I do my best to learn as much as I can about it.

I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
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Blogging 101, On A Personal Note · January 19, 2011

Ah-Ha Moment: I’m Doing Me


The dictionary defines the term ah-ha moment as, “an instant at which the solution to a problem becomes clear”. It’s as if something clicks within your mind and suddenly things are more in focus than they ever were before. I experienced this firsthand last weekend, when I had an epiphany of sorts in my mind—your actions spark reactions and you get in what you put out. I know that is common sense to most of us, but for me, I have been struggling with my new-found career as a freelance writer and professional blogger. There are so many things pulling you in different directions that you can easily become sidetracked and discouraged. You have to know when to hold them, when to fold them, and stop the voices of unsolicited advice even if it is someone close to you.

Sometimes you have to just do YOU.

I am not a formulaic person that has a map and follows it accordingly. I ebb and flow and do what is comfortable to me. My successes and failures are all due to me using the trial and error method. You can read a flowchart on how to do something and do it just as described, but that ain’t me. And I’ve tried to do that and it simply does not work. If I fail, I will fail on my own. And if I succeed, in the words of Ole Blue Eyes, I did it my way.

Indeed. Shot out to Hoboken, New Jersey.

I could try to be like someone else, but why would I want to? No one can do it better, wiser, stronger, and fly-er than me—I am going to stop second guessing myself.

I know I am not the only second guesser out there. I guess the best advice I can give is to get out of our heads and use our instincts and inner voice to propel us forward.

When in doubt, do you!


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Comments

  1. Henway says

    January 19, 2011 at 7:38 pm

    This is pretty good advice. Just be yourself =)

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      January 20, 2011 at 6:33 pm

      Henway–it is pretty good advice. I hope I can follow it. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Alovelydai says

    January 20, 2011 at 8:02 am

    Sista we are >here<.

    Reply
    • The Cubicle Chick says

      January 20, 2011 at 6:33 pm

      @Alovelydai— From this moment forward, I’m not looking back. 🙂

      Reply
  3. Maria Pavel says

    January 31, 2011 at 4:52 am

    Failures are pretty much part of growing up but instead of just jumping blindly, I do a little planning so I have plan Bs in cases plan A doesn’t work. I’m the type who’s very much comfortable in having at least 2-3 plans to mitigate risks.

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When I was Sweet 16. #tbt #throwbackthursday When I was Sweet 16. #tbt #throwbackthursday
To all the lovers. A little flower arrangement fro To all the lovers. A little flower arrangement from me to you for Love Day. ❤️❤️❤️ #valentines #valentinesday #love
Circa 1981. My snaggletooth era. 😂#TBT Circa 1981. My snaggletooth era. 😂#TBT
We did our best to recreate our onesie moment from We did our best to recreate our onesie moment from 2013. Strike a pose, the remix.
Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally be Finally! After a year (or more) we’ve finally been able to get a staycation on the calendar. Having fun with these ladies!
Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school i Circa 1990 when I was a sophomore in high school in Jacksonville, and I had 3 different hairstyles going on at the same time.  #FBF #backintheday
So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of thi So, I’m doing THING! Join me and the cast of this year’s @shesaidstlouis  on Friday, March 10th at The Sheldon. We’ll be sharing our stories monologue style, and it’s going to be a good time. If you’d like to get tickets, hit me up! A portion of the proceeds will go to @rungforwomen. 👍🏾
February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partn February is American Heart Month, and I’ve partnered with @MedIQCME and Duke Health to raise awareness about atrial fibrillation (AFib), also known as irregular heartbeat which affects 12 million people.My father was diagnosed with AFib and my family has a history of this condition, so I do my best to learn as much as I can about it.

I’ve learned that when the atrium’s squeezing becomes irregular, blood doesn’t flow as smoothly through the heart and clots can form. Those clots can travel to the brain, disrupting the oxygen supply and causing a stroke. People with AFib are at approximately 5 times greater risk for stroke than those with regular heartbeats. Stroke is a leading cause of death and also of serious, long-term disability. It is essential to get to a hospital quickly if you suspect a stroke in yourself or others.Learn the acronym FAST to recognize the signs of stroke: 

F = Face. Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop?

A = Arms. Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? 

S = Speech. Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is the speech slurred or strange?

T= Time. If you see any of these signs, call 9-1-1 right away.

Take this survey (link in bio) for the chance to win 1 of 5 $100 VISA gift cards—takes less than 10 minutes.

Thanks, @mediqcme, and Duke Heart. Supported by an educational grant from the Bristol Myers Squibb and Pfizer Alliance.
Another flower arranging therapy Reel, this time w Another flower arranging therapy Reel, this time with roses and a little Stevie Wonder. I could do this all day! 🌹 #traderjoes #flowers #roses #therapy #selfcare
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